Is that person who you want to coach–or wants to be coached–really coach able? In my earlier post, I discussed attributes that a potential client must have to be ‘coach able’. Here are two more attributes. Why are these important? So you don’t get into a coaching relationship that is doomed to fail.
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Consideration and Attribute of Potential Client: A�Do You Recognize Mentors or Coaches Who Partnered in your Success?
It is amazing to me how many real estate professionals say they a�?work alonea��. They say they have nothing to do with anyone in their office, and impact no one. (Really? Our actions impact no one? That must mean wea��re pretty insignificanta��) While real estate success is certainly due to onea��s efforts, to think that we are virtual a�?islandsa�� of knowledge and action is not only ludicrousa��ita��s dangerous. Before you fall for that a�?I alone am responsible for my successa��, I have a question:
Who in your life mentored you, coached you, parented you, advised you, encouraged youa��and set you straight when you needed it? How many people can you name? This can be positive or negative, too. We learn as much or more from a bad experience as a good one!
If you truly cana��t name anyone, you dona��t believe that others can help you a�?break through your ceiling of achievementa��. Could that mean YOU dona��t believe you can break througha��..or that you have great fear of a�?being flexiblea��?
Consideration and Attribute of Potential Client: How Accountable Are You Willing to Be?
This is actually the a�?biggiea��. If youa��re not willing to be accountable to your own actionsa��and to your coacha��DONa�?T start a coaching relationship! I know many of you think accountability is a dirty word. Ita��s true that some coaches (sports, music, etc.) have accentuated the down side of accountabilitya��being punitive, negative, criticala��(There are a lot of inept coaches out there.) No wonder people dona��t want to be accountable if they think they will be punished for any wrong action (or inaction). But, thata��s not what Ia��m talking about.A� Ia��m talking about a situation where you make a promise and keep it. In doing the promised action, you are guaranteed to get praisea��and results.
The Natural Reticence to Answer to Anyone
I launched an online training/coaching/accountability results-based program called Up and Running in Real Estate. I essentially put the principles and processes from my best-selling book Up and Running in 30 Days online. But, ita��s now 8 weeks of planned actionsa��my business start- up plan step by step. I built in the parameters I have learned assure the greatest success:
- A coaching component
- Lots of encouragement
- Processes and systems that are a�?self-teachinga��
- Guess what many participants do with the program? They do some of the work (they love the multiple choice tests) but dona��t do the business-producing work. By their actions, they are not accountable to themselves or to their coaches. So, of course, they arena��t getting the resultsa��and they cana��t get appreciation and recognitiona��two big drivers to continue the motivation. How unfortunate!
My question to you: What times in your life have you been accountable to actions and to someone elsea��and enjoyed the experience? Are you running away from accountability because you havena��t experienced the a�?upa�� side?
A�So, are you coach able? Is your potential client coach able?
Armed with the answers to the questions in this blog, you can assess whether you will benefit from a coach. And, managers and coaches, you can help your potential client figure out whether she is a good candidate for coaching.
The Coach Ability Evaluator
I have been coached by the a�?best in the business, first as a musician and then as a real estate professional. Ia��ve learned what works. Because of my performance background, the coaching methods we use at Carla Cross Coaching are much different than most. From all these experiences, Ia��ve discovered who is coach able and who is not. Find out more here.
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